What is the best way to forget about someone you love but has disappointed you?
Choose any from the available options below.
1) Replacement method. Find something to do or be with the person that makes you happy will make you forget that person. That thing can be something you like doing and which has the ability to capture all your attention. If its a person, be with that one who makes you happy and makes your time move fast or world go round. Indeed time flys when you are having fun, hakuna matata.
2) You can also choose another method of forgetting someone. Pretence or Self-lieing method. This has to do with lowering your affections for him/her and considering that person as a normal human being yet they initially played a vital role in your life. It doesn’t take much time you will forget about them.
3) Moving on method: this has to do with redirecting the love you had for him/her who disappointed you (and/or but love in vain) to someone who loves you back. However, If you begin any relationship with an unhealthy motivation like to show off to your previous partner, then its doomed to fail. There is an old song about looking for love in all the wrong places; however, it might be more accurate to say that many of us are looking for love for all the wrong reason (to make someone jealous). if you’re entering a new relationship to make your ex jealous, or to make a friend or enemy jealous, then you’re being inconsiderate towards your new lover and disrespecting the new relationship. Instead, deal directly with your anger in a way that wont drag innocent people into your issue.
4) Waiting upon God to say the final word. I put this as a fourth point knowing that if it was put at the first point, people wouldn’t have read this far and it tells other minds that I’m preaching, and don’t wanna hear about that. I’m not preaching here. Waiting upon God has to do with waiting how the future unfolds itself. Due to passage of time, the disappointment or the broken heartedness heals. This results in two things (a) If the person who disappointed you decides to come back, you might be willing to take him/her back. Possibilities are also that will go to them and ask for forgiveness (b) After that passage of time when your disappointment healed, you can smoothly move into another relationship without anything to worry about. Its as if you don’t have the past or past experience.
Bonus: How to mend a broken HEART!
Falling in love is great. On the other hand, it also gets hard when someone stops loving you: When the love that was ‘hot’ burning suddenly stops.
Just have courage the pain will be normal with time. The following are some of the ways of mending a broken heart:-
☑ Don’t believe that its all your fault that the relationship didn’t work.
☑ Know that you are still a lovable person even if this person doesn’t think so.
☑ Talk to your friends and people who care about you.
☑ Do something nice for yourself,go out with friends, read a book or try a cool new hairstyle.
☑ Remember that time heals. Take it one day at a time.
REMEMBER, GOD LOVES YOU BEST